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Humility. Humility. Humility.

April 8, 2021April 10, 2021 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Indicative of the abuse of power in the home, church, organization, or workplace is entitlement. Scripture gives no leeway to those who think they are particularly important.

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Headship: Demand it of Yourself

March 29, 2021April 10, 2021 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

In the experience of abusive leadership in the home, workplace, and government, it is not uncommon to hear demands of submission as if the leader has absolute and ultimate authority. Biblically, it is not true. Don't be fooled by the blustering.

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Though They Rage…God is Our Refuge

March 12, 2021March 30, 2021 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Wading into the depths of Psalms 44 & 46can be both the healing balm and helpful aid to building boundaries that protect our integrity from those who war against a Biblical understanding of abuse.

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Humility, Like Oil On the Head

February 11, 2021February 11, 2021 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

We are all dependent. We long for respect and love and relationship. But leaders need to depend on God, not our subordinates.

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Abuse, Vindication, and the Fear of Man

February 5, 2021February 5, 2021 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

My first degrees were in music performance. It was then I learned a valuable lesson about responding to abuse.

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Gentleness & Believability: Philippians 4

January 25, 2021January 25, 2021 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

I sat in the plush CEO's office of a Christian mission organization. A friend had known the mission leader since their parents had worked together on the field when they were children. We were happy to join her though a bit suspicious of her reading of the situation. We knew the president as a charming and responsive leader.

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Psalm 27: Hope & Healing for the Abused

January 20, 2021January 20, 2021 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

As I sat down a couple mornings ago to read God's Word and consider His mindfulness of me, I was led to Psalm 27 by a lovely little devotional called, "Jesus Calling."

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Wild Grapes: God’s Judgment on Power & Oppression

January 16, 2021January 16, 2021 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

People were created to love God and neighbor. They were created to care for and keep the world [Genesis 2:15]. To create flourishing. They were not created to sow power and reap abuse.

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The Fall of Empires and the Narcissist

January 9, 2021January 10, 2021 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

As we watch current events unfold we are seeing the results of narcissism in bold and deeply disturbing colors.

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Neglect in Leadership: Who Will Listen?

December 31, 2020December 31, 2020 / pearlsandswinesite / 2 Comments

After sharing her unbearable stress, Susan was nearly ignored by her church leadership.

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