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On Forgiving Because You Have Been Forgiven: There are Qualifications However
According to much of Scripture on forgiveness, the one who needs forgiveness, needs to ask for forgiveness in order to receive it. But there is another kind of forgiveness.
Jealousy and Leadership: A Toxic Mix
For the leader who considers his authority questioned whenever another human being in his orbit receives accolades for his or her skills, the temptation to not only covet but attempt control over that gifted one is a problem.
Thankful 2025
Since 2017, I’ve shared insights on toxic leadership, inspired by personal experiences and supportive theologians. I’m grateful for my family’s journey and hope this blog has contributed to healing for those affected. Thank you for reading.
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The Gold Standard: When Unacceptable is Better than Those Others
In the domestic violence world it is common to hear, "Well at least he doesn't hit her." We see the same dynamic in the organization when fellow leaders, boards, or even co-workers suggest that the boss isn't as bad as the last guy.
A Servant vs. a Do[e]g: Complicity with Toxic Leaders
How do organizations develop systemically abusive leadership?Whether in Nazi Germany or a church in a small town, followers can have a huge impact.
The Heart of [Abusive] Leadership: Becoming leaders with a desire for the good and the capacity to carry it out
When seeking change in an abusive leader, it must be kept in mind that he or she is deeply deceived. And this is why abuse advocates have so little confidence in the abusive leader to change.
Recent Interview on Advocacy from the Presbyterian Pew
Lynna Sutherland interviews Kelly Dehnert (editor of P&SS) and Pastor Cal Boroughs on the DASA report.
Ted’s Story: A Band of Brothers
Ted's story is hard to even start the telling. His story is a call to the church to be the church.
Image Management: Lying to the World
Image management can be a temptation for churches and Christian organizations. We all want others to see us personally in the best light and that gets transferred into how we market our church or organization.