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All That Glitters Is Not Gold: Emily’s Story

October 31, 2022December 6, 2023 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Emily joined the African mission work because it "sounded good. It was the way we should be helping." But all that glitters is not gold...

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Authorized Unity: Loyalty, Allegiance and Fidelity

July 12, 2021July 12, 2021 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

When your pastor says, "If you don't trust me, you don't trust God," run.

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Enabling Abusers: Saul and the Ziphites

June 21, 2021May 4, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / 2 Comments

Saul was just like the other kings. He was wicked and abusive. And he had enablers who supported his abusive behavior.

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Wild Grapes: God’s Judgment on Power & Oppression

January 16, 2021August 5, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

People were created to love God and neighbor. They were created to care for and keep the world. To create flourishing. They were not created to sow power and reap abuse.

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Lessons from the Boxing Ring

June 22, 2020April 9, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

Despite the crazy dad, Dave Marks' thoughts are helpful for understanding the toxic work environment...or really, any conflict.

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Go On and Kiss the Girl: People-Pleaser-Ahab

May 30, 2020July 28, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

I think I have King Ahab figured out...he is a people-pleaser. This is how people-pleasing and leadership can make a mess.

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Sure Signs of Toxic Leadership

April 11, 2020July 19, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

There are a number of indicators of abusive leadership and it is important to be able to diagnose toxic leadership and root it out from your organization. Because it will kill your organization.

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The 2nd Chair: Suffering a Toxic Leader When 2nd in Command

January 11, 2020July 21, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Being an Assistant can be very difficult when serving under a toxic leader. Here is some help.

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The Gag Reflex: How Fear Ruins an Organization

November 11, 2019March 17, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Organizational Head Honchos are encouraging a toxic environment when they "gag" their employees.

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Jim & Mary: Pastoral Abuse Part 1

September 15, 2019November 18, 2023 / pearlsandswinesite / 2 Comments

Jim's position at the church seemed to be a God-given break. However, Jim worked under an abusive church pastor.

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