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Serving Under the Authoritarian Pastor: Jim’s Story

July 13, 2023October 19, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

“The exercise of authority is designed to serve the well-being of those under its care,” says Timothy Witmer. That seems basic to the Christian, and yet how many bosses view their leadership this way?

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God’s Definition of Leadership: Concentrating on Responsibility Rather than Authority

April 10, 2023October 19, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

We look for strong leaders using the world’s standards of leadership . . . not God’s. Elders in Christ's church are called to serve; this is how they are to lead. Jesus served.

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Consider It Joy [In Time]! Weeping With Those Who Weep

January 31, 2023January 31, 2023 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

"Consider it joy! It will make you stronger." Yes, the Bible tells me so. But it so often seems so callous for someone to remind me of it. Rather, Weep.

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To Africa On a Lark: A Visitor Brings a Sharp Razor

September 11, 2020April 9, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Mind you, we knew we were called to our life there. But, how we got there was nearly miraculous. It was on our early, cool morning walk in September of 2002 when my wife cut through the maze of all my struggles and fears and prayed, “God, show us what you want us to do.”

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The Team: Sharing, Caring, and Respect

August 17, 2020April 9, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

What should be second nature to Christian organizations has, in some ways, been purloined by business leadership. Teamwork.

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Lessons from the Boxing Ring

June 22, 2020April 9, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

Despite the crazy dad, Dave Marks' thoughts are helpful for understanding the toxic work environment...or really, any conflict.

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Solomon: From Riches to Rags

May 13, 2020July 20, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

King Solomon's leadership began with humility and a request for wisdom from God. However, his later arrogance led to disobedience, resulting in a divided legacy for Israel.

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Sure Signs of Toxic Leadership

April 11, 2020July 19, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

There are a number of indicators of abusive leadership and it is important to be able to diagnose toxic leadership and root it out from your organization. Because it will kill your organization.

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Peace in the New Year

December 25, 2019January 5, 2024 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

I wish all who suffer under toxic leadership the Peace of God that surpasses all understanding in this New Year.

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The Autocrat: The Destruction of a Good Team

November 25, 2019March 17, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Unfortunately, it is not unusual for those who work for Christian organizations to fall under the destructive leadership of an autocratic boss. As Christians we often have the tendency to believe suffering is a necessary sign of following Christ.

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