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Jealousy and Leadership: A Toxic Mix

December 18, 2025April 7, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

For the leader who considers his authority questioned whenever another human being in his orbit receives accolades for his or her skills, the temptation to not only covet but attempt control over that gifted one is a problem.

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The Golden Rule: How Can Leaders Interpret it Accurately?

June 23, 2025January 25, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / 2 Comments

No matter your background, you have likely heard this maxim used. It is simple, to the point, and can be helpful in determining a course of action that is selfless. But is there another interpretation of it that is biblical?

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What if a Leader were to Boast in Weaknesses?

July 12, 2024April 12, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

A leader boasting in weaknesses can demonstrate humility and reliance on Christ's strength, distinguishing good leadership from toxic leadership. Without humility there is just no way.

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Susie and the Dictator: Assisting an Authoritarian Pastor

April 19, 2023October 19, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / 2 Comments

Susie's story is not uncommon. Her story is an example of a church work environment that is destructive and extraordinarily complex because highly authoritarian leadership is destructive and extraordinarily complex.

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Humility, Like Oil On the Head

February 11, 2021November 6, 2023 / pearlsandswinesite / 2 Comments

We are all dependent. We long for respect and love and relationship. But leaders need to depend on God, not our subordinates.

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Abuse, Vindication, and the Fear of Man

February 5, 2021August 24, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

My first degrees were in music performance. It was then I learned a valuable lesson about responding to abuse.

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To Africa On a Lark: A Visitor Brings a Sharp Razor

September 11, 2020April 9, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Mind you, we knew we were called to our life there. But, how we got there was nearly miraculous. It was on our early, cool morning walk in September of 2002 when my wife cut through the maze of all my struggles and fears and prayed, “God, show us what you want us to do.”

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The Team: Sharing, Caring, and Respect

August 17, 2020April 9, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

What should be second nature to Christian organizations has, in some ways, been purloined by business leadership. Teamwork.

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