Jim's position at the church seemed to be a God-given break. However, Jim worked under an abusive church pastor.
Pastoral Abuse
A Cry for Justice: Judgment and Forgiveness
Recognizing Jesus is the true and right judge brings healing and forgiveness.
Humility: Who’s the Chief
Ever wonder what it means to be "godly?" Just consider the "chief of sinners." Maybe humility has something to do with it?
Guarding the Gates: Interviewing for Toxicity
So often organizations or churches suffer under toxic leaders for years, years that the organization wishes it had to do over again. Wouldn't it be nice to catch them before they are hired?
David vs. Nabal: Hothead Meets Jerk Saved by a Beaut
David had the opportunity to bring his own hot-headed justice to Nabal, but Abigail brought a cool-headed reminder of God's faithfulness.
The Benefit of the Doubt: The Ethics of Confrontation
How do we confront people when they sin against us? Biblically, the benefit of the doubt is not always a true application of the Gospel.
Forgiveness: Mimicking Jesus
How do we forgive those who have abused us in the marketplace or home?
The Fine Line of Abuse: Relating on a Continuum
The continuum of abuse provides for both hope and confusion. Abusive individuals and Abusers are two different animals. Tread carefully.
Susie’ Story: The Care & Feeding of an Autocrat
Susie spent 3 years serving an abusive and lying pastor. There's no way but out.
The Narcissist Pastor: Jacob’s True and Painful Tale
Jacob served under a pastor he considered narcissistic, who prioritized money, fame, and favoring wealthy members. Despite being fired, Jacob found healing and continued his ministry journey.