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The Long-Term View: The Lord is a Refuge for the Oppressed

March 23, 2023March 23, 2023 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

We see our oppressors (as the Bible calls them) winning the battle. But that is only in the short-term. The LORD is my refuge.

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It’s Not an Affair: Clergy-Perpetrated Sexual Abuse of Adults

March 13, 2023March 13, 2023 / pearlsandswinesite / 2 Comments

Jada said she "felt like a prisoner set free" when she left her sexually and spiritually abusive pastor. 

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Imaging Leadership: When Image is More Important Than Anything

March 8, 2023March 8, 2023 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

One of the surest ways to kill an organization is to be driven by image. One of the surest ways to identify a toxic leader is to find one driven by image.

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Silencing Victims in the Church: Kayla and Amber’s Story

February 17, 2023February 16, 2023 / pearlsandswinesite / 2 Comments

Amber, a young adult, was committed to church. She loved the fellowship and teaching. Then something happened.

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Touch Not the Lord’s Anointed: Respect and Accountability

February 3, 2023February 3, 2023 / pearlsandswinesite / 2 Comments

Is a church leader, by nature of the office he holds, the "Lord's anointed" as David calls King Saul in 2 Samuel 1:14?

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Consider It Joy [In Time]! Weeping With Those Who Weep

January 31, 2023January 31, 2023 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

"Consider it joy! It will make you stronger." Yes, the Bible tells me so. But it so often seems so callous for someone to remind me of it. Rather, Weep.

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Strange Fire: Holding Leaders Accountable

December 30, 2022December 30, 2022 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Bad leaders are held to account by the Lord and His people are called to hold them accountable for their failures where they have that ability.

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Toxic Spillage: The Side-Effects of Following a Toxic Leader

October 4, 2022 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

If you work for a Christian organization (or other) that is ruled by a toxic leader, be aware. It will spill out and over you.

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Pastoral Steamroller: Michael’s Story

September 2, 2022September 2, 2022 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Michael and Kate realized the abuse of power by bullying, control, using the scriptures to condemn, shunning, and slander had been going on for a long time.

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PCC’s Dirty Little Secret: Kate’s Story Part Two

September 1, 2022September 1, 2022 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

Part 2: It has been two years since the Williams left Peace Community Church. Blame-shifting and isolating, Kate's pastor has deeply hurt many in leadership.

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