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All That Glitters Is Not Gold: Emily’s Story

October 31, 2022December 6, 2023 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Emily joined the African mission work because it "sounded good. It was the way we should be helping." But all that glitters is not gold...

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Authorized Unity: Loyalty, Allegiance and Fidelity

July 12, 2021July 12, 2021 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

When your pastor says, "If you don't trust me, you don't trust God," run.

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Wild Grapes: God’s Judgment on Power & Oppression

January 16, 2021August 5, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

People were created to love God and neighbor. They were created to care for and keep the world. To create flourishing. They were not created to sow power and reap abuse.

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Solomon: From Riches to Rags

May 13, 2020July 20, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

King Solomon's leadership began with humility and a request for wisdom from God. However, his later arrogance led to disobedience, resulting in a divided legacy for Israel.

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Margo’s Story: Playing Second Fiddle to a Wolf

September 27, 2019July 12, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

Margo served her Senior Pastor well. Too bad he was a wolf in sheep's clothing.

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Businessman Jacob: Pursuing a Kingdom Purpose

April 12, 2019June 26, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

If every church were filled with Jacobs, the redemptive arm of God would radically change our communities.

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Susie’ Story: The Care & Feeding of an Autocrat

March 1, 2019March 3, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Susie spent 3 years serving an abusive and lying pastor.There's no way but out.

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The Narcissist Pastor: Jacob’s True and Painful Tale

February 14, 2019March 3, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Jacob served under a pastor he considered narcissistic, who prioritized money, fame, and favoring wealthy members. Despite being fired, Jacob found healing and continued his ministry journey.

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Jabez & An Enlarged Heart

December 17, 2018March 3, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

The motives behind the popular "Jabez's prayer" need to be the Christian Leader's motives.

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Liberty U: Slaves to Image [& $]

August 30, 2018August 31, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / 2 Comments

A friend of mine who suffered under abusive leadership recently said, "I have come to believe that it all comes down to money." However, scripturally we are warned not to pursue wealth.

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