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All That Glitters Is Not Gold: Emily’s Story

October 31, 2022December 6, 2023 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Emily joined the African mission work because it "sounded good. It was the way we should be helping." But all that glitters is not gold...

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PCC’s Dirty Little Secret: Kate’s Story Part Two

September 1, 2022September 1, 2022 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

Part 2: It has been two years since the Williams left Peace Community Church. Blame-shifting and isolating, Kate's pastor has deeply hurt many in leadership.

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PCC’s Dirty Little Secret: Kate’s Story

August 31, 2022September 19, 2023 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

It has been two years since the Williams left Peace Community Church. You either confront the abuse, or you enable and embolden it. Silence only serves the abuser. Sin grows in the dark.

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Why Leave a Toxic Organization?

September 17, 2021May 17, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

In my study of toxic leadership over the years, I have found that many experts in their various fields want to give hope to their readers. They provide many excellent ideas on how to remain under a toxic leader while pursuing a flourishing ministry. I am going to suggest in this blog that they are usually for naught.

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Authorized Unity: Loyalty, Allegiance and Fidelity

July 12, 2021July 12, 2021 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

When your pastor says, "If you don't trust me, you don't trust God," run.

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Wild Grapes: God’s Judgment on Power & Oppression

January 16, 2021August 5, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

People were created to love God and neighbor. They were created to care for and keep the world. To create flourishing. They were not created to sow power and reap abuse.

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Stupid [Toxic] Leaders: Lessons from Proverbs

September 21, 2020September 18, 2024 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

A fundamental character trait of good leaders is humility. However, the church continues to create more James MacDonalds, James Bakkers, Mark Driscolls, Bill Hybels, Jerry Falwell Jrs....etc.

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The Team: Sharing, Caring, and Respect

August 17, 2020April 9, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

What should be second nature to Christian organizations has, in some ways, been purloined by business leadership. Teamwork.

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General Revelation: Look, Listen, and Learn

July 24, 2020April 9, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

God's communication through His creation can be extraordinarily helpful as we minister to survivors of abuse.

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22 Years of Failure: The Church’s Response to Abuse

June 15, 2020April 9, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Marsha sought help from church leaders for 22 years. They didn't think that was long enough to live with an abusive husband. The church's theology of divorce is hurtful and unbiblical.

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