Being an Assistant can be very difficult when serving under a toxic leader. Here is some help.
Narcissism
The Virgin Mary: Knowing the Blessing
Toxic leaders at home and in the marketplace do not define who you are any more than Mary's world defined her.
The Gag Reflex: How Fear Ruins an Organization
Organizational Head Honchos are encouraging a toxic environment when they "gag" their employees.
John & the Autocrat
I learned from it that my relationship with Christ needs to be what gives me the confidence and satisfaction rather than my relationships with the pastor, or church
Margo’s Story: Playing Second Fiddle to a Wolf
Margo served her Senior Pastor well. Too bad he was a wolf in sheep's clothing.
Jim & Mary: Pastoral Abuse Part 2
The "rest of the story." Jim & Mary: Identify abusive leadership and find healing.
Jim & Mary: Pastoral Abuse Part 1
Jim's position at the church seemed to be a God-given break. However, Jim worked under an abusive church pastor.
Humility: Who’s the Chief
Ever wonder what it means to be "godly?" Just consider the "chief of sinners." Maybe humility has something to do with it?
Guarding the Gates: Interviewing for Toxicity
So often organizations or churches suffer under toxic leaders for years, years that the organization wishes it had to do over again. Wouldn't it be nice to catch them before they are hired?
The Benefit of the Doubt: The Ethics of Confrontation
How do we confront people when they sin against us? Biblically, the benefit of the doubt is not always a true application of the Gospel.