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Ted’s Story: A Band of Brothers

July 24, 2025January 25, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Ted's story is hard to even start the telling. His story is a call to the church to be the church.

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How Toxic Leaders Respond to Strength: Toxic Leadership Goes from Bad to Worse

May 5, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

The toxic leader will be threatened by the slightest show of strength from subordinates. This was the story of the new king of Egypt in the time following the death of Joseph.

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Leadership: Seeking the Glory of Another

January 3, 2025December 18, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Leaders should emphasize the importance of humility and giving credit to others while encouraging leadership that fosters teamwork and values subordinates' contributions.

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The Slide into Toxic Leadership 2: Amaziah, King of Judah

September 3, 2024December 3, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Leaders may begin well. The LORD has given them vision for the organization they have been tasked with leading. But, in time they begin to drink the koolaid of power and self-sufficiency.

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The Slide Into Toxic Leadership 1: The Story of Jeroboam, King of Israel

August 28, 2024November 2, 2024 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Toxic leadership almost always involves heightened anxiety caused by a fear of losing status or a position of leadership resulting in anger, defensiveness, and blame-shifting when confronted.

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What if a Leader were to Boast in Weaknesses?

July 12, 2024April 12, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

A leader boasting in weaknesses can demonstrate humility and reliance on Christ's strength, distinguishing good leadership from toxic leadership. Without humility there is just no way.

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Real Change: Peter and Abuse

February 29, 2024August 2, 2024 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Peter's words for those struggling with abusive or controlling tendencies emphasize the need for inner transformation and repentance.

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Grace Through Criticism: Uzziah – When He Became Strong

January 5, 2024October 23, 2024 / pearlsandswinesite / 7 Comments

Sixteen-year old Uzziah ascended to the leadership of Judah after his father’s demise and reigned righteously for much of his 52 year rule. However, his arrogance led to his ruin.

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Toxic-Free Environment: Finding a Church of Shalom

August 7, 2023November 22, 2023 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

It is not unusual for those who have faced off with toxic leadership in the church to turn from the church. If you want to find a church of shalom, here are some hints.

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Imaging Leadership: When Image is More Important Than Anything

March 8, 2023October 19, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

One of the surest ways to kill an organization is to be driven by image. One of the surest ways to identify a toxic leader is to find one driven by image.

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