Sandi has worked for mission agencies almost her entire adult career. And she has experienced multiple toxic leaders in nearly all those agencies.
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Sin or Safety: Where is Our Focus?
When it comes to abuse, are we more focused on sin or safety?
A Cry for Justice: Judgment and Forgiveness
Recognizing Jesus is the true and right judge brings healing and forgiveness.
The Benefit of the Doubt: The Ethics of Confrontation
How do we confront people when they sin against us? Biblically, the benefit of the doubt is not always a true application of the Gospel.
Forgiveness: Mimicking Jesus
How do we forgive those who have abused us in the marketplace or home?
Complicity: Going Along to Get Along
What keeps abuse of authority in the workplace and home alive? We should not allow ourselves to be sucked into being part of the oppressive behavior of others.
Not As Things Ought to Be: Grieving Our Loss
I asked her if she was okay. I fully expected her to say, "I am crying in joy. I am so glad it is over." Rather, she said, "It is so sad."
Chapman: Bitter Justice
How do we seek accountability for evil leaders and remain bitter-free? While serving in another country as missionaries, my family became quite delighted with a drink called a "Chapman." It was made of Sobo orange drink, bitters, and 7Up.
Trauma: Get Out While the Getting’s Good
Abuse Trauma creates significant neurological disorder. The Church needs to be a place of safety and healing.
Outing a Swine: What the Pope, Hybels, & Driscoll Truly Need
Offering grace does not necessarily mean overlooking toxicity. Accountability is a pearl to be offered.