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Daniel in the Lion’s Den: A Leadership Quagmire

April 17, 2020July 19, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

Daniel lost his job, but as he noted, "The real abuse was not in being fired unjustly [which he was], but in [Pastor Jim] having to control the narrative in every situation...the manipulation, gas lighting, and his constant need to fight."

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Sure Signs of Toxic Leadership

April 11, 2020July 19, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

There are a number of indicators of abusive leadership and it is important to be able to diagnose toxic leadership and root it out from your organization. Because it will kill your organization.

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Who Is On the Lord’s Side: Blessing God’s Own

March 22, 2020July 15, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

If you are on the side of the oppressed...you are on the side of the Lord.

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Mission Agency Leaders & Matthew 18

February 14, 2020July 21, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

Sandi has worked for mission agencies almost her entire adult career. And she has experienced multiple toxic leaders in nearly all those agencies.

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Sin or Safety: Where is Our Focus?

January 21, 2020July 18, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / 1 Comment

When it comes to abuse, are we more focused on sin or safety?

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The 2nd Chair: Suffering a Toxic Leader When 2nd in Command

January 11, 2020July 21, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Being an Assistant can be very difficult when serving under a toxic leader. Here is some help.

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The Virgin Mary: Knowing the Blessing

December 28, 2019July 13, 2025 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Toxic leaders at home and in the marketplace do not define who you are any more than Mary's world defined her.

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Peace in the New Year

December 25, 2019January 5, 2024 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

I wish all who suffer under toxic leadership the Peace of God that surpasses all understanding in this New Year.

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The Autocrat: The Destruction of a Good Team

November 25, 2019March 17, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Unfortunately, it is not unusual for those who work for Christian organizations to fall under the destructive leadership of an autocratic boss. As Christians we often have the tendency to believe suffering is a necessary sign of following Christ.

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The Gag Reflex: How Fear Ruins an Organization

November 11, 2019March 17, 2026 / pearlsandswinesite / Leave a comment

Organizational Head Honchos are encouraging a toxic environment when they "gag" their employees.

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